Are you suffering from EP – elusive potential?

Are you drifting along, telling yourself “someday” – someday you’ll live the life you really want, be the person you know you can be.  But for now, you slog through your days, waiting … for what?  A wakeup call?  An inescapable sign that it’s time?   Don’t wait for a layoff, an illness, or a personal tragedy to get you moving.

This is your sign!


Is this you?

You look pretty good on the outside, better than most really.  But you know there’s more.  What would it be like to let yourself really shine?


Unfurl Your Brilliance!

Are you at a personal crossroads?

  • You’ve achieved the success you set out for – but you’re feeling a bit empty?
  • You fear that you took the wrong path – and now you don’t trust yourself to know which is the right one?
  • You feel called to do something more meaningful – to create something with a lasting legacy?
  • You ask yourself “is this really all there is?” but you know in your heart there has to be something more?

You’re in the right place!

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You’re no slacker – when you set a goal, you devote yourself fully to it.  But now you’re not sure at what goal to aim yourself.  Your course in life was set based on who you were –or thought you were – way back when.  But you’ve changed.  The world has changed.  You feel a bit lost.  Out of alignment.

But you also feel a bit guilty!  You have what appears to be a great life, from the outside looking in.  You don’t know why you’re not happy with what you have.  You may have even voiced your feelings and been told you’re crazy!  You’ve got it all!  Why isn’t that enough??

You don’t know where this is going to lead.  But you feel like each day you die a little inside by not following this faint calling that you hear, that seems to be getting louder and more insistent.  You feel like you’re running out of time.  But for what?

Turn Turmoil to Transformation

My name is Kate Fessler, and I can help.  I’ve been where you are.  And probably some places you’re glad you haven’t been!

When I was in my early 20s, I felt strongly that I needed to get out of my environment if I wanted a better life.  I didn’t know what I wanted, but I knew it wasn’t there.  I had gotten a taste of a different way of living when I’d vacationed in Hawaii, so essentially on a whim (as only the young can do), I packed up and moved to an unfamiliar place with no job and no place to live.  It was scary, and I really had no idea what I was getting into.  Fortunately, I was able to find a job and a roommate quickly, and I ended up staying in Honolulu for the next 7 years.

During that time, I met and married my first husband.  What I discovered later, after he passed away suddenly, was that very little of what I believed to be true about him was.  It shook me to my very core to find out that the life I had been living for 10 years was, essentially, a lie.  I felt powerless, clueless, and at times, hopeless. This was the first real wakeup call that I had been living my life unconsciously, just drifting along, letting others make decisions for me.  This was the pivot point that set me on the course of awakening, of living my life with eyes wide open, and discovering, like Dorothy in the Wizard of Oz, that I’d had the power all along.

Through this discovery process, my career was evolving.  I liked what I did, and it paid fairly well.  I was part of a growing company that was challenging the status quo.  The best part was that I got to work with people from all over the world, through which I learned that there are a lot of different cultures with different beliefs, but there are some areas in which we are all the same.

At a certain point, though, I realized I had dug myself a velvet rut.  I was running faster and faster just to keep up, and it wasn’t fun anymore.  I found my mind drifting and felt exhausted, classic signs of burnout.  But I couldn’t leave this nice salary, the benefits, the four weeks of paid vacation, could I?  As I started to spend more and more time outside of my job trying to mitigate the detrimental effects of my job, I realized that not only could I leave, but I had to leave if I wanted to stop this gradual chipping away at my health and happiness – at my very soul.

It wasn’t easy.  I had people depending on me, and I am nothing if not responsible – to others often more than to myself.  I had to learn that in order to really be there for anyone else, I had to be responsible, to be there, for myself first.

Was I brave?  It didn’t feel like it at the time.  I just knew that something had to change.

Life is full of transitions ~ some more dramatic than others!  Oh how I wish there had been someone who could coach me through it, help me see my gifts and talents, open my eyes to opportunity and be my cheerleader – someone who believed in me when I couldn’t believe in myself, who held me accountable for my actions but also held a space for me to be vulnerable, to admit I didn’t have all the answers, and to guide me to finding those answers – or sometimes, just asking different questions.   Someone who could help me chart a course for the future that would fulfill my needs and desires, while not destroying everything I had already built in my life or letting down those who depended on me.

That’s what I can do for you.

Let go of the status quo, and embrace the life you were meant to lead.

A little over four years ago, I left a great job with a famous internet company to follow my heart.  People thought I was crazy.  But I knew it was the right thing to do.  It’s been an amazing journey of self-discovery.  I’ve learned that my purpose, my passion, and my mission are to guide others through the rough waters of personal and professional growth.  I can help you navigate through your transition so you don’t feel like you’re drowning.

Uncertain to Unstoppable!

Enjoyment - free happy woman enjoying sunsetUltimately I guide my clients to connect with their truth so they can create luxurious, authentic lives of joy, meaning and prosperity, aligned with their passion and purpose, that make them feel alive and exhilarated, knowing they are bringing something beautiful and lasting to the world.

What are you waiting for?  You’ve probably been feeling this way for quite some time.  You feel bad that you haven’t done anything about it, but sometimes you feel like you’re stuck in quicksand – you can’t move forward but you can’t go back, either.

Sign up today for a complimentary strategy session.  It’s time to get unstuck and get moving in the right direction!  We’ll pinpoint where you are so you can chart a course for where you want to go.

If you’re ready to unfurl your brilliance ~ to turn you turmoil …. unstoppable ~ schedule a complimentary strategy session and take the first step toward Your Life … Realized!